Our cats are four now, and didn't actually start being lap cats until they were threeish, so there's definitely hope-- they've gotten much more snuggly even this year. It's as though they suddenly realized that they had the option of sitting on people instead of on things that are harder and not as warm. It was pretty sudden, too, and though they'd been touchable at younger ages, they'd had no inclination at all to be actually cuddly. I've had friends tell me this is a normal cat-life-cycle thing, so expect her to start being possibly overly affectionate in another year or so.

I need a cat icon...