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Note to the college student who was doing his nervous best to pick me up in the bookstore earlier tonight: while yes it was sort of amusing that you're so excited that an actual female is perusing the manga section that you attempt to pick her up despite her monosyllabic answers, it is best to be heeding this advice: when you're trying to chat up a girl, please to not be digging your pants out of your ass with your other hand.
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I know there's a higher incidence of poly in the SCA and other non-mainstream type organizations than in the general society, but sheesh! When someone says "No thank you, I'm taken," it's a pretty good sign that they're not poly and that they're not looking.
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Also, whether or not you're hitting on someone, if you say, "May I touch you?" and they say no, that should be the end of it. Yikes.